Monday, February 8, 2010

How to deal with someone who is always telling people something bad about you although its not true?

They're neighbors and don't wanna have a fight with them because they are the people who wants trouble all the time!How to deal with someone who is always telling people something bad about you although its not true?
simple you ignore them all what matter is what you think you know the truth about yourself. Do not give them the power to hurt you ok their just jealous and insecure with their self's ok i know all about this because it has happen to me and even today it still happens i have learn to stay true to myself and forget about what people say behind my back. you will be ok stay strong and don't cave in bye i hope this helpsHow to deal with someone who is always telling people something bad about you although its not true?
the first thing you should do is pray for them...another you could try is: be totally friendly to other neighbors and show them who you REALLY are so that when that/those 'bad neighbor(s)' tells something untrue abt you, they would not believe...ryt??
how do I deal with it...


like this...have a friend listen in on them or pay close attention (dont wanna be wrong and start something)


then confront them and tell them to knock the **** off or else i will get ugly. THey laugh and deny it, i just get extremely angry and most of the time get in a fight...try not to talk it that far, and DO NO SNITCH! snitches get stiches. Fight your own battles, just try to not let it get physical, but the ***** gotta be put in her place. What gives her the right to talk about you!?


what ever you no, DO NOT and i mean DO NOT go down as low as her and talk bad about her! If you do that you are just as bad as her, and you cant even be mad at her for it, your caught doing the same thing. SO just confront her with just you and her, if it doesnt work then you come back with a friend and talk to her again, and do what it takes. That **** pisses me off...Good luck hun
well, hey man, you could always go around correcting them... telling people the truth. But gosh that seems like a waste of time! Why don't you not worry about them? Do they have a reason to say what they are saying? Take a good hard look at yourself. You know, when someone is saying something, there is usually a reason for it. Did you do something to one of them? Do you live with your parents? Maybe you could ask one them to speak to the neighbors. I would hate for it to come to violence. But me, that is always my first urge. I ALWAYS lose my temper and want to hit people. But, unless you wanna be in Juvenile or some place like that... then relax, man. I would try to get to the root of the problem. Maybe they are jealous? =)
Ignore them...it does not matter what people think, its about who you really are. Only ignorant immature people choose to believe here say anyway. If they dont know you, they cant judge who you really are. Even if you were confrontational what does confronting the neighbors do? All they will do is deny or continue to lie. You should just remain civilized and in the end good always beats evil.
Just ignore them. As long as you let it bother you, the only person getting bothered by it is you. Your friends and family know who you really are and anybody else who is important to you, you just tell them that the neighbours are wrong. Who are they going to believe? Them or you?
I think you guys should confront them about it, invite them over and have a talk or something. Or just ignore it because if you know they are not true, why let it bother you.
one thing you can do fight them even if you lose, forget the ignore and it will go away

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